THE TOP 3 THINGS COUPLES REGRET SPENDING MONEY ON (AND WHAT TO DO INSTEAD)
Planning a wedding can feel like walking through a maze—every turn filled with decisions, opinions, and pressure to do things a certain way. Pinterest says one thing, your planner says another, and your family? They have a whole list.
But when the day is over, and the photos are printed, what actually matters?
Let’s talk about the top 3 things couples look back on—and wish they had done differently.
If you're in the thick of planning, consider this your gentle nudge to realign with what feels right for you.
Step 1: Don’t Invite People Out of Guilt
The guest list is one of the first places many couples give in to pressure. You start with your dream list… and end up inviting your dad’s coworker’s wife and your mom’s yoga buddy.
More often than not, couples say:
“We felt guilty not inviting them… but they didn’t even say thank you.”
Here’s your permission to let go of obligation. Every guest takes up emotional and financial space. Only invite people you want to share the day with—not people you're trying to appease.
Step 2: Question the "Must-Haves"
Many wedding decisions are made because “that’s just what people do.”
Photo booths. Party favors. Chair upgrades. Elaborate exits.
They’re fun—but often forgettable.
Ask yourselves:
Would we actually enjoy this?
Or are we just checking off a box?
If it doesn’t light you up, skip it.
Your wedding isn’t a Pinterest board—it’s a reflection of your love.
Step 3: Trust Your Gut (Not Pinterest)
This might be the biggest regret of all: letting someone else make the big decisions.
Whether it’s a planner pushing their favorite vendors, a parent with strong opinions, or a mood board that’s taken on a life of its own—losing sight of your own vision can quietly erode the joy in the process.
Instead, pause and ask:
If no one else had a say, what kind of experience would we create?
Your wedding day should feel like home—not a performance.
So… What Should You Spend On?
You don’t need a six-figure budget to have a beautiful, memorable day.
You need clarity—on what truly matters—and courage to make bold choices.
We recommend focusing on:
High-impact experiences: A meaningful ceremony, a photographer who gets your vibe, food that feels like comfort.
Intentional details: Personalized vows, shared rituals, or small moments that tell your story.
Letting go of the rest: Chair sashes, monogrammed napkins, and things no one will remember.
Final Thoughts
Your wedding isn’t a public performance. It’s a sacred celebration of your story.
And when you look back, we want you to remember the joy on your faces—not the stress behind the seating chart.
If you’re ready to plan a wedding that feels like you—not your planner, not your parents, and definitely not TikTok—we’ve got something for you.
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