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YOU’RE NOT TOO MUCH—YOU’RE JUST NOT BASIC: RETHINKING THE WEDDING YOU ACTUALLY WANT

June 20, 20252 min read

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too emotional, too laid back, too dreamy—or somehow not doing it right when it comes to wedding planning—this is for you.

Because the truth is:
You’re not too much.
You’re not too chill.
You’re just not basic.

And your wedding shouldn’t be either.

Romantic couple portrait during Arizona mountain wedding

The False Choice Brides Are Tired Of

Let’s be honest: wedding culture often forces you into a frustrating binary.

You either go all out with a massive, high-pressure, high-budget celebration…
or you’re told to just skip it all and elope to avoid the stress.

But what if you don’t want either?

What if you actually want a wedding day that feels sacred—but also fun?
Intimate—but still unforgettable?
Emotional—but never performative?

There’s a third option.
And it’s the one no one’s really talking about.

The Wedding That Feels Like You

You can design a wedding that’s grounded, meaningful, and aligned with who you truly are as a couple. One that:

  • Doesn’t require you to blow your budget

  • Doesn’t feel like a performance for anyone else

  • And definitely doesn’t ignore the emotional and spiritual weight of what this moment means

This isn’t about compromising.
It’s about
creating space for what really matters.

Wedding couple posing in front of iconic Arizona sandstone cliffs

You Don’t Need a Bigger Budget—You Need a Braver Blueprint

You deserve more than a copy-paste wedding plan that doesn’t reflect your values.

You deserve to feel proud of where your money’s going, connected to every detail, and deeply present throughout the process—not just on the day itself.

If that sounds like what you’re looking for…

We Made Something Just for You

For just $27, you can grab our Designing a Wedding Worth Every Penny guide.

It’s not just a workbook—it’s a mindset shift.
We’ll help you plan with purpose, clarity, and grounded guidance—so you can make every decision from a place of alignment (not overwhelm).

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Your wedding doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
It just has to
feel like yours.


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